Young 'n' Just Wanna Have Fun

    When you're young it's hard to be tied down in a relationship because you feel you haven't experienced all there is to experience as a young adult. Some girls just wanna have fun and a guy just got to understand that being free is what you wanna be and even for a guy, if you feel that you're not ready to be committed, there's nothing wrong with taking time. 

    A couple my friends, were in a semi long term relationship, throughout high school and a little bit of college and on the exterior was the epitome of a great standing relationship but I guess all wasn't good for one because the girl decided she didn't want to be in a committed relationship with her boyfriend anymore. Ofcourse she does't and I don't blame her. She's in college and wants to experience that college life and that freedom. Her boyfriend on the other hand felt that their situation wasn't that big of a situation, but c'mon now you have to understand her point of things and understand that she felt overwhelmed. One thing a girl hates, is to feel like her boyfriend's a leech and even to some guys, it gets kinda annoying. 

    I just feel like if you really love someone, you have to learn to let them go. To the girl in this situation, you've made your point, yes you are young and you're not! married, so you can do as you please. I fully understand what it is, you're just starting to find yourself. To the guy, c'mon now, love is really an indescribable thing and yes its hard to let go of someone you love, but it's not the end. I just hate when guys or girls feel like the reason they are broken up with is because, they've found someone else. That's not even the case, it is what it is, and you just have to learn how to deal with it. You live and you learn, and in this case...cherish what you have and take time to listen because it's all about letting go, whether it's outside or inside a relationship_seriously...

The Chosen One

Could you possibly be the Chosen One?

the one he desires, the one his heart yearns for with passion and fire

You think it's your body, or hair, or smile

when in fact it's your heart and good men only come once in a while

Is it to good to be true that it's not about sex?

You laugh to stop from crying because you don't know what is next

The guy you've been waiting for is finally in your life 

so are you willing to make that commitment because every good man needs a wife

Your heart stops when he speaks 

and your mind race as you think

Thinking about lies, betrayal, or deceit 

it's your head against your heart and your heart stands defeated

Your mind takes over and you take guard 

because to you true love doesn't exist and if it does finding it is hard

Now your head is in control and protecting your heart

so it won't get broken or even begin to start

Once again you're all alone and your mind starts to wonder

what could've been, what should've been, and now it is nothing

Right now is the time when you feel the need to let go

no putting up a wall, you are ready to be close

A sense of love starts to cover you whole

and passion takes over your mind, body, and soul

There was once a good man there choosing you

now getting him back may be an issue

He was there by your side giving you all he had

now you have an epiphany, to him this is sad

What if he doesn't come back to easy

then you'll be still end up heartbroken and won't find any guy pleasing

Just go ahead and give yourself to him

because life is about lessons and sometimes you have to take risks

Love is what you were looking for and it found you

So don't turn your back on it because for some it won't come back soon

~the Chose One(the one a man desires to be with for eternity)